Support indie music!

I'd like to make a plea to anyone who stops by, on behalf of my friend Robert Goodman. He is trying to raise some money to fund the release of the debut album by his group, the Robert Goodman Band. If you think you'd like to be a part of helping a self-supporting band get to the next level, then please check out the video, info and link to visit the Robert Goodman Band page on KickStarter. KickStarter is affiliated with Amazon.com, and if you already have an Amazon account, then donating (anything from $1 on up) is as easy as logging in and clicking a few times. They'll certainly appreciate the support!

Here's the link to the Robert Goodman Band page on Kickstarter:
http://www.kickstarter.com/projects/robertgoodmanband/robert-goodman-band-2011debut-albumeverthing-is-be?ref=search

And here's a little taste of what they do:



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Its a small world after all

The internet's a funny old thing.

On the one hand, it has the power to separate people from one another.
Every day, there are more and more ways to waste time on the web, and every day there are more and more people wasting time alone with their PC, instead of going outside their homes and doing actual things. And the problem doesn't stop when they do leave their houses. You'll see whole families, waiting for their meals at a restaurant, ignoring each other while they text, or check their email, or look at a YouTube video. I know a few people who can't go more than an hour or so without checking in on Facebook, because they are so hooked into it. It's at the point where even young kids who have absolutely no reason to have a Facebook page (like my 10-year-old daughter) think that they NEED a Facebook page, because they've come to think that is the best way to keep in touch with the people they know. Conversations are so old school; why bother when you can post a comment on your friend's wall, or even better, just click "like"? In a lot of ways, the internet has undermined the relationships and activities many people used to enjoy.

And then, on the other hand, the internet has given us the potential for connections and opportunities we might not have otherwise had. Let me offer you my heartwarming Christmas story as an example of what I mean.

I am a rabid fan of the indie rock group Elbow. They're from Manchester, England, and I've been following and supporting them for years, with an enthusiasm that most people usually reserve for sports teams or Jesus. When an Elbow forum called Elbow Room Only made its online debut in 2008, I was quick to join up. It was great to find so many fellow fans, especially since this band has not exactly become a household name here in the US. At last, I had some folks with whom I could share my thoughts and feelings about this incredible music! And they turned out to be a really nice bunch of folks, too, with some of them becoming the 21st-century equivalent of pen pals. I have sent and received goodie packages, exchanged emails and Christmas cards, and generally kept connected to several of them over the past 2 years.

Over the past little while, there have been a lot of happy conversations on the Elbow forum. News was posted on the Elbow website that they'd be releasing a new album this coming March, with a tour to follow in the UK. Of course, this put all of us Elbow geeks in a proper tizzy, though some were a bit tizzier than others. I am one of only a few Americans on the forum; nearly all the rest are from the UK/Ireland or Europe. And since the tour dates were all in the UK/Ireland or Europe...well, I was a bit less able to join in the fun. My fellow Elbow-heads were posting about the shows they planned to attend, while I just had to wait until (eventually) some US dates would (hopefully) be posted.

Or so I thought. As it turns out, the internet was about to play a vital role in The Greatest Christmas Ever.

At this point in our heartwarming tale, a bit of background info might be useful. I've been married nearly 20 years now. However, my husband and I went through a really (really, REALLY) rough patch and were apart for some years, beginning when when our daughter was just about to start school. Only recently have we managed to work our way back to some normalcy, and over the past year or two, we've really made a lot of progress. Things are better for us now than they've been in quite a long time, as a family and as a couple, and I think it was for this reason that my husband decided he was going to make this a Christmas to remember.

He knew just how much I wanted to see Elbow in concert. However, the odds of them coming here to Florida are approximately the same as the odds of me joining the Celine Dion fan club (in other words, less than zero). Now, I've actually traveled out of state to see them twice before, but I would never even remotely have considered trying to arrange a trip outside the US to catch one of their shows. So, he decided to do it for me.

He knew that I had a pen pal-type relationship with one particular member of the Elbow forum, a perfectly lovely woman named Lorraine, who lives in one of England's Northern Counties. My husband and I had even planned to try and meet up with Lorraine and her husband (also an Elbow fan/forum member) when we take our planned family trip to visit his relatives in Scotland this coming summer. Lorraine, he thought, could help him execute his cunning plan.

He knew her name, and tried searching for her email address or other contact info, but came up empty handed. He also knew that Lorraine and I follow each other on Twitter, so he created a Twitter account and tried finding her that way. That was how he got his first break. As it happens, Lorraine had started up her own site for Elbow fans (called, appropriately enough, elbowfans), as a sort of sister site to the other forum, and she has a second Twitter account to tweet about updates to that site. My husband saw one such tweet, and found his way to the elbowfans site, where he promptly signed up as a new member. Lorraine, in her admin capacities, sent him a welcome message, and then he let her know who he was and what he was up to.

From there, he and Lorraine started communicating via email, and with her suggestions and assistance, my husband managed to arrange a complete trip for me. I would be flying to Manchester, Elbow's hometown, to see them in concert this coming spring. He got me the plane tickets, a ticket to the gig, and a room in a really sweet hotel. He made plans to work from home while I'm away, so he can look after the kid and the dogs, and he enlisted Lorraine's help in looking after me once I'm there, as she and her husband will be coming into Manchester themselves for the show and have offered to hang with me and keep me company there. Like I said before, greatest. Christmas. EVER.

It's ridiculous how much time and effort he put into planning this for me. And it was all through social media and websites that he managed it. In this case, those same online entities that isolate so many of us actually worked to create new connections and strengthen old ones. In fact, the first time I had the chance to hear Lorraine's voice came on Christmas morning, when my husband told me about my trip and gave me Lorraine's number. Previously, our communication had all been online or in the mail, so having a proper chat with her was truly a gift in itself (See? Didn't I tell you this was a heartwarming story?).

I am profoundly amazed and grateful, to my husband and to Lorraine, for the work they did to make this happen. But I am also grateful for the technology that enabled them to do what they did. Somehow, two people who
live thousands of miles apart from one another and had never met, managed to pull off a mindblowing and brilliantly sneaky Christmas surprise for me, all via online interaction. As I was saying, the internet's a funny old thing.

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The best Christmas story ever

Folks, I have an early Christmas present for all of ya. I know we're all plenty busy getting ready for the holidays, but I'm gonna ask you to take about 18 minutes out of your day to watch a little something, and if you do, I know you'll be glad you did.

I don't think I've ever seen a Christmas story that I love as much as this one. It's a clip from the end of the film Smoke. Now, if you've never seen that flick, it is one you should check out ASAP, because it's fantastic all the way through. But the ending, in particular, is one of the best things I've ever seen in my life. It's not Frosty the Snowman or It's a Wonderful Life. It is, however, the most real and human and beautiful piece of film I've ever seen on the subject of Christmas.

The skills of actors Harvey Keitel and William Hurt, the direction of Wayne Wang, and the cinematography of Adam Holender are all extraordinary during this clip. See for yourself, and make sure you watch it all the way through, because when it changes from color to black and white, it gets REALLY good. Enjoy, and happy holidays, folks.



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Deal or no deal

Over the past few days, there has been a giant pile of negative vibes floating around. Between the passing of Elizabeth Edwards from cancer, the 30th anniversary of the murder of John Lennon, the fire which recently consumed the home of one of my neighbors, and the general stress and psychosis that are beginning to creep into my days as I rush to complete my holiday preparations, I've been fighting a bit harder than usual to keep my sunny side up.

And yet, with all this to think about, the one thing my mind keeps chewing on more than anything else is the god-awful "compromise" that has been struck between the White House and the GOP over the Bush tax cuts. It has saddened and infuriated me in ways I can't fully articulate. I am trying to tell myself that it's not what I should be focused on, especially at this time when there is so much else going on that requires my immediate attention. But I just can't help it.

The thing is, I have really worked hard to back this president up. Many people have. He was someone that I thought would be driven to make good on the promises he made while campaigning. Not that he'd necessarily deliver on all of them; that would be impossible and even I, on my most optimistic days, know that. But I expected, from his words and the force with which he delivered them on the campaign trail, that he'd be driven to at least try and tackle the issues once he'd been elected, and that even when he inevitably lost a political battle here and there, he'd go down swinging.

I had seen that maddeningly cool and reasonable side of him on the campaign trail, too. I knew he could go full-on Vulcan once in a while, and that it often happened when you most wanted him to be fired up and fire other people up. So I don't suppose I have any right to be shocked when that Spock-like demeanor appears and undermines the passionate side of his personality. Weighing all the information is a good thing, and I appreciate the fact that the president can do this - and values doing this - when making his decisions.

But here's where I get angry. This was not a decision that had to be made at the last minute. Someone who values information as much as President Obama does should have known that. We all own calendars. We all knew the issue of Bush's tax cuts would need to be resolved before the end of this year, and we all knew that the issue of extending unemployment benefits would also need to be dealt with in the same time frame. When the Republicans blocked those benefits from being extended before the compromise (not once, but multiple times), why was this not made into a huge public issue by the White House? Why were we not told by our president at the time, in no uncertain terms, that this action was indefensible, and that the people needed to communicate with their elected officials to get them to do the right thing? He could have made a bigger deal about this, and he should have. This would have forced the unemployment benefits issue to stand alone, as an example of GOP stubbornness hurting the American people, and it would have forced the Congress to deal with it as it stood and not as part of a tax cut package.

Granted, there are many other important situations that have been fighting for attention in D.C. But if the well-being of the unemployed was as much of a heartfelt concern for the president as he's been saying it is (nonstop, for the last 24 hours, as a justification for why he "had" to compromise with the GOP), then he would have moved it up a bit on his agenda. He would have made sure there was a plan in place well before now, when the sense of urgency about extending those benefits wasn't a carrot the Republicans could dangle to get the White House to jump through its hoops. President Obama said, at his press conference yesterday, that it only makes sense to negotiate with hostage-takers if "the hostage gets harmed". Well, on whose watch did the American people get taken hostage by the GOP, Mr. President? How did they become pawns in this discussion, and why could that not have been prevented somehow?

The art of political negotiating in Washington is, no doubt, a highly complex and inscrutable process. I don't suppose I have the expertise needed to truly judge how skilled or how unskilled a person is at making good deals on Capitol Hill. I just have a gut feeling that President Obama didn't do all he could to advance his cause, and that he left the discussion too late to operate from a place of strength. Yes, he may have wanted to spare the unemployed any problems that they might face should their benefits run out, but the fact that he was in that position - standing with a political gun to his head by the GOP, forced to give up a principle that formed a major cornerstone of his campaign just to get something so basic and so necessary - tells me that this president is not as capable of effective legislative leadership as his supporters expected him to be.

I've already heard what the president thinks of my opinion, and the opinions of others who feel he failed by making this compromise. He's been very clear about the idea that those of us who disagree with him simply don't know what a great deal this actually was, and how satisfied we should all be to have it, under the circumstances.

Those circumstances, however, are the problem, and they are a problem of the president's own making. God help me for saying this, but there are a few times when he should be "the decider", as George W. Bush so memorably put it. Obama based his whole campaign on change. Changing the way Washington worked, changing the way things got done, changing the whole scene. And yet, here he is, explaining away this deal he's made by telling his base that it's not so bad, considering the way things are. That he is expecting us to be OK with him working within the constraints of "the way things are", after all his words about change during his campaign, is truly distressing.

I know the president has a big mess to clean up. I know he's not getting all the help and support he needs, either from Washington or from those of us outside of Washington. I don't expect everything to be peachy keen only 2 years after we ended the 8 years of Bush's crazy train presidency. But I am not being unreasonable or out of line when I say that this compromise should not have happened as it did, and that there must have been other, and probably better, ways in which to handle this.

I am not a member of what is known by the White House as "the professional left". No one has ever paid me a dime to think the way I think, or believe what I believe. My opinions are not dictated to me by anyone in the media. I am simply an informed and interested citizen who takes seriously my rights and responsibilities as a part of America's democracy. And I consider it both my right and my responsibility to speak out when I feel something is wrong. I support President Obama, and I have for a long time. That does not mean I agree with all he does, nor does it mean I should just shut up and act grateful no matter what he does. And when something as infuriating as this compromise happens, I don't have any qualms about expressing my anger.

None of us who helped the president get elected did it half-heartedly. Nobody gave up hours of their time working phone banks or chunks of their money donating to his campaign on a whim. It was out of commitment to him, and to the principles he claimed to represent. Even when it was inconvenient, even when it was difficult, even when it cut into our free time or our disposable income, we did not stop. We never compromised a damn thing when we worked so hard to help him. We didn't expect him to compromise so freely on something so important. If he continues to sell out on what he promised us he'd do, and if he continues to play the victim when we express our unhappiness with such decisions, he will find that his army of support from 2008 has largely dried up by 2012. And if the Democratic base is even less enthusiastic about their party in 2012 than they were for this year's midterm elections, we are all in big, big trouble.
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Music that doesn't suck (Part 1)

Alrighty, I have been in the house all day, doing fun stuff like balancing my checkbook and paying bills and whatnot. the only reason I haven't stabbed myself in the eye with a fork is because I had some good songs coming up on my mp3 shuffle. I decided to take a break and share some of the musical goodness with ya. I kinda listen to a bunch of different stuff, so pardon the bizarro nature of the following stuff. It doesn't all go together, but it works somehow. Kinda like chocolate-covered pretzels.

Daft Punk - Derezzed
One of the new songs from the upcoming soundtrack to Tron:Legacy. Which I do not care about AT ALL, except for the fact that there is new Daft Punk music in it. This is not the song as it appears on the OST, it's a remix, because Disney's cracking down on anyone who posts material from the soundtrack. But you get the idea; this is gonna sound frawesome (that's freakin' awesome, in case you didn't know).


Bjork - Who Is It
Speaking of frawesome...a human beatbox, handbells, and Bjork. Brilliant.


Elbow - Great Expectations
You will never hear a more gorgeously done song. Never.


Rufus Wainwright - Oh What a World
One of my two favorite Rufuses.


Rufus and Chaka Khan - Tell Me Something Good
And here's my other favorite Rufus. Check out Chaka's gold glitter disco top and the bell bottoms! Day-ummm!


Eels - Last Stop:This Town
Mark Oliver Everett is one of my favorite songwriters ever. this video is pretty wackadoo, but the song is ace.


Hanson - Thinking 'Bout Something
I know it's not cool to like Hanson. But guess what? I don't give a flying motherfucking fuck. And this video's got Weird Al, so it's automatically cool. Don't like it? Bite me. Twice.


Everly Brothers - Let It Be Me
One of the most incredible songs ever written, sung with one of the all time great harmonies in recorded music.


Lyle Lovett - Bears
I freakin' love Lyle Lovett. And this is one of my favorite of his songs.


Tom Waits - In the Neighborhood
It doesn't get any better than this. Except for all the other songs Tom Waits has done, that is.
They're all amazing on an interplanetary scale.


Bettye LaVette - Love Reign O'er Me
I love watching this. It's fun to see the looks on the faces of Pete Townshend and Roger Daltrey as Bettye LaVette kicks their song square in the ass. Epic pwnage.


Flaming Lips - Fight Test
Wayne. WAYNE. WAAAAAAYNE!!!!!!!


Loretta Lynn w/Jack White - I Miss Being Mrs. Tonight
I really like this one a lot, despite the fact that Jack White is one freaky lookin' dude.


Beastie Boys - So What'cha Want
What's cooler than this song? Not a goddamn thing.


Kanye West - Robocop
Kanye West: unparallelled bag of douche, but Lord help me, I like his music. What're ya gonna do? *shrug*


REM - Nightswimming
Something beautiful to round out the set. Sort of like a dollop of post-Kanye sorbet.


And there you have it, the music that got me through the day. Now I gotta go pick the kid up from school and listen to her Radio Disney crap all the way home...*shudder*

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